A Complicated Kindness
A NovelBook - 2004
As the novel begins, Nomi struggles to cope with the back-to-back departures three years earlier of Tash, her beautiful and mouthy sister, and Trudie, her warm and spirited mother. She lives with her father, Ray, a sweet yet hapless schoolteacher whose love is unconditional but whose parenting skills amount to benign neglect. Father and daughter deal with their losses in very different ways. Ray, a committed elder of the church, seeks to create an artificial sense of order by reorganizing the city dump late at night. Nomi, on the other hand, favours chaos as she tries to blunt her pain through "drugs and imagination." Together they live in a limbo of unanswered questions.
Nomi''s first person narrative shifts effortlessly between the present and the past. Within the present, Nomi goes through the motions of finishing high school while flagrantly rebelling against Mennonite tradition. She hangs out on Suicide Hill, hooks up with a boy named Travis, goes on the Pill, wanders around town, skips class and cranks Led Zeppelin. But the past is never far from her mind as she remembers happy times with her mother and sister -- as well as the painful events that led them to flee town. Throughout, in a voice both defiant and vulnerable, she offers hilarious and heartbreaking reflections on life, death, family, faith and love.
Eventually Nomi''s grief -- and a growing sense of hypocrisy -- cause her to spiral ever downward to a climax that seems at once startling and inevitable. But even when one more loss is heaped on her piles of losses, Nomi maintains hope and finds the imagination and willingness to envision what lies beyond.
Few novels in recent years have generated as much excitement as A Complicated Kindness . Winner of the Governor General''s Award and a Giller Prize Finalist, Miriam Toews''s third novel has earned both critical acclaim and a long and steady position on our national bestseller lists. In the Globe and Mail , author Bill Richardson writes the following: "There is so much that''s accomplished and fine. The momentum of the narrative, the quality of the storytelling, the startling images, the brilliant rendering of a time and place, the observant, cataloguing eye of the writer, her great grace. But if I had to name Miriam Toews''s crowning achievement, it would be the creation of Nomi Nickel, who deserves to take her place beside Daisy Goodwill Flett, Pi Patel and Hagar Shipley as a brilliantly realized character for whom the reader comes to care, okay, comes to love."
This town is so severe. And silent. It makes me crazy, the silence. I wonder if a person can die from it. The town office building has a giant filing cabinet full of death certificates that say choked to death on his own anger or suffocated from unexpressed feelings of unhappiness. Silentium. People here just can''t wait to die, it seems. It''s the main event. The only reason we''re not all snuffed at birth is because that would reduce our suffering by a lifetime. My guidance counsellor has suggested to me that I change my attitude about this place and learn to love it. But I do, I told her. Oh, that''s rich, she said. That''s rich. . .
We''re Mennonites. After Dukhobors who show up naked in court we are the most embarrassing sub-sect of people to belong to if you''re a teenager. Five hundred years ago in Europe a man named Menno Simons set off to do his own peculiar religious thing and he and his followers were beaten up and killed or forced to conform all over Holland, Poland, and Russia until they, at least some of them, finally landed right here where I sit. Imagine the least well-adjusted kid in your school starting a breakaway clique of people whose manifesto includes a ban on the media, dancing, smoking , temperate climates, movies, drinking, rock''n''roll, having sex for fun, swimming, makeup, jewellery, playing pool, going to cities, or staying up past nine o''clock. That was Menno all over. Thanks a lot, Menno.
--from A Complicated Kindness
From Library Staff
This modern Canadian classic follows a bright, rebellious young woman coming of age in a conservative Mennonite community.
0Charlie Oct 22, 2014
What a wonderful main character - she has so many great one-liners! As I was reading this work, I kept saying to myself "nothing has happened" but it was still very entertaining. As cliched as it sounds, the power of love can change lives for the better. Highly recommended for anyone wh... Read More »
AD_Library Oct 22, 2014
Set in the 1980s, this is the story of a rebellious young woman who feels trapped in her isolated Mennonite community in Manitoba.
katrina314159 Nov 12, 2009
This book was way overrated. The ending was beyond ridiculous.
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