Fleishman Is in Trouble

Fleishman Is in Trouble

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Book - 2019 | First edition.
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"Dr. Toby Fleishman wakes up each morning surrounded by women. Women who are self-actualized and independent and know what they want--and, against all odds, what they want is Toby. Who knew what kind of life awaited him once he finally extracted himself from his nightmare of a marriage? Who knew that there were women out there who would actually look at him with softness and desire? But just as the winds of his optimism are beginning to pick up, they're quickly dampened, and then extinguished, when his ex-wife, Rachel, suddenly disappears. Toby thought he knew what to expect when he moved out: weekends and every other holiday with the kids, some residual bitterness, tense co-parenting negotiations. He never thought that one day Rachel would just drop their children off at his place and never come back. As Toby tries to figure out what happened and what it means, all while juggling his patients at the hospital, his never-ending parental duties, and his new, app-assisted sexual popularity, his tidy narrative of a spurned husband is his sole consolation. But if Toby ever wants to really understand where Rachel went and what really happened to his marriage, he is going to have to consider that he might not have seen it all that clearly in the first place."--
Publisher: New York : Random House, [2019]
Edition: First edition.
Copyright Date: ©2019
ISBN: 9780525510871
Branch Call Number: BRODE
Characteristics: 373 pages ; 25 cm

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Dr. Toby Fleischman wakes up each morning surrounded by women who know what they want--and, against all odds, what they want is Toby. Who knew that kind of life awaited him once he extracted himself from his nightmare of a marriage? As Toby tries to figure out what happened and what it means, his... Read More »


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NedSu
Oct 13, 2020

Reading this novel made me feel grateful to have survived 'the missing years'. The narrator makes a strong, if hyperbolic statement about middle age dating in this swipe left era. There are some great lines amid all the soft porn. The human condition is always confusing sex with love. Gradually, the focus shifts from the husband's POV to the wife's POV, and there is also some intrusion from the narrator herself. Although it is first novel, it is pretty well structured and the attention to detail about the hepatalogist's work rang true. I look forward to a second book on another subject.

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CORI D. MORRIS
Apr 06, 2020

I was so looking forward to a long great read but was very disappointed. I stopped 89 pages in because it was subsequently all about the sexual weird encounters he had since his divorce and way more detail than I EVER needed to know about. I’m not a prude but there is a line of presenting things in bad taste and a lot of these stories were. I also really grew to hate Fleishman himself. He was so passive and yet so passionate all at the same time, letting his wife trample over him and at the same time just being okay with everything that is going on is ridiculous. I really wanted to finish this but it was so awful. I don't understand why so many people loved this book.

CALS_Lee Apr 03, 2020

The first thing you'll notice is that Fleishman does not exactly appear to be in trouble as the book opens. Toby Fleishman, successful New York City doctor, early forties, is recently separated, and enjoying the myriad sexual opportunities offered to him through online dating apps. Granted, he has some of the typical difficulties with his kids, portrayed particularly amusingly through his tween daughter Hannah:

"Hannah snarled at him that he'd chosen the wrong outfit, that the leggings were for tomorrow, and so he held up her tiny red shorts and she swiped them out of his hands with the disgust of a person who was not committed to any consideration of scale when it came to emotional display."

The reader learns about Toby's marriage to Rachel, and the disappointments he had with their relationship that led to the marriage breaking up. Rachel is a talent agent who owns her own agency, working long hours and, he feels, neglecting Toby and the kids, as the book carefully notes that Rachel earns about 15 times the salary of Toby, who is on a mere $250,000 a year. Toby's resentment comes through strongly:

"Rachel knew how to work. She liked working. It made sense to her. It bent to her will and her sense of logic. Motherhood was too hard. The kids were not deferential to her like her employees. They didn't brook her temper with the desperation and co-dependence that, say, Simone, her assistant, did. That was the big difference between them, Rachel. He didn't see their children as a burden, Rachel. He didn't see them as endless pits of need, Rachel. He liked them, Rachel."

Later in the novel however, you come across a shift taking place. The novel is being told from the perspective of a college friend of Toby's, Elizabeth. She is a writer who used to work at a men's magazine. She tells us:

"That was what I knew for sure, that this was the only way to get someone to listen to a woman - to tell her story through a man; Trojan horse yourself into a man, and people would give a shit about you. So I wrote heartfelt stories about their lives, extrapolating from what they gave me and running with what I already knew from being human. They sent me texts and flowers that told me I really understood them in a way that no one had before, and I realized that all humans are essentially the same, but only some of us, the men, were truly allowed to be that without apology. The men's humanity was sexy and complicated; ours (mine) was to be kept in the dark at the bottom of the story and was only interesting in the service of the man's humanity."

And the reader realizes that Brodesser-Akner is telling us the complicated story of Rachel's humanity through Toby's story. The Fleishman in trouble is not really Toby; it is Rachel. What about Rachel. Do you want to know about her and her story?

Fleishman Is in Trouble is a smart novel that gives the reader a lot to think about by the end, but it is also a challenging read. It skewers its characters and their wealthy social set, making it more difficult to identify with any of them, be it Toby or Rachel, but it also critiques the social conditions that have led these characters there. Anger is a common theme, both of the characters, and by the end, clearly of the author herself. She is angry that women are told they are the equal of men, yet that is evidently never true, not really, and women will be punished for their choices whatever those choices are. Given the attention this novel has attracted, she has indeed hit a collective nerve.

JCLS_Ashland_Kristin Mar 21, 2020

Darkly funny look at middle age. Super good...wait for it...it’s kind of a slow burn to understand exactly where it’s going.

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Cas22
Mar 07, 2020

I struggled to get to the end of this book. There was too much angst going on for far too long! Sure, it was a perceptive exploration of the complexities and ambiguities of people and relationships but it was hard to feel much empathy for the extremely wealthy, privileged, self-absorbed and self-indulgent characters who populated this book. In the end, it just became a little too tedious.

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EljayJohnson
Feb 13, 2020

Considering this is a book about dysfunctional relationships, it's only fitting that my relationship with it was so troubled. Initially, I had that dreaded "just couldn't get into it" feeling, which then changed to something different. I have certainly read some YA and children's lit as an adult but this might have been the first time I thought perhaps I'm too old for a piece of fiction. Oh, these characters were so aggravating, then fine, they all deserved each other ---- except there were children involved. Hey, you immature, stunningly self-involved adults - how about noticing the kids in the corner?

That all being said, I certainly couldn't be spilling over with all of these feelings without this book being something special. Such shrewd observations and caustic wit that skewered a certain set of people perfectly. Sort of a wild and sardonic ride until that last third blew me away and showed just how smart and talented the author was. Look at that - there's some pretty insightful heft and depth there. Maybe I'm the right age for this book after all, because everyone is.

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KatG1983
Feb 07, 2020

Fleishman is in Trouble is an entertaining examination of a mid life crisis - or, rather, several mid life crises. While I found the author's style quite readable and fun, the weight of the characters unhappiness became a bit untenable by the time I got to the end of the book. I think the observations she makes and the reality of the characters lives ring true, but it's just … kind of depressing. And a personal peeve of mine is when people don't take responsibility for their own happiness, but blame their significant other for where their lives have ended up... it's just a frustrating line of thinking. Anyway, the books is well written but I found the overall experience to be a downer.

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lukasevansherman
Jan 12, 2020

"And it is not not a dangerous thing to be at the doorstep to middle age and at an impasse in your life in your life and to suddenly be hearing sounds from your youth."
Assured debut novel by Taffy Brodesser-Akner, who is best known for her celebrity profiles (Tom Hanks, Bradley Cooper). It's definitely a book you'll appreciate more if you're married or in a long-term relationship. The Fleishmans are a seemingly perfect couple, with success, wealth, kids, friends, a house in the Hamptons, and an apartment in the city, but their marriage if falling apart. It's told from the perspective from a friend of theirs, with both characters getting their side of the story. I'd say it's the best book about marriage this side of "Madame Bovary," but less tragic and a lot funnier. I'd recommend reading this whilst watching "Marriage Story."
"The anger was a garden that she kept tending, and it was filled with a toxic weeds whose growth she couldn't control."

taffyakner.com

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xiaojunbpl12
Jan 10, 2020

A comedy, of men, at the expense of women whose melancholy aggrandized to be preachy in the last chapter of "trouble". The author may have sharp and accurate captures on marriage and women in modern society, her writing hovers on the margin of wit to satirize and sentiment to embrace, undecided, futile going deep into a dilemma, resigned at the moments of age, nothing unique.
Audacious revealings of the intimate and private, many hilarious passages I enjoyed, but with humor savored, bad taste also lingered.

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njon38
Jan 07, 2020

Got a lot of hype but it was hard to care about or relate to New York elites who consider a physician making more than a quarter million dollars a year as not pulling his financial weight in the marriage. echoes of Philip Roth with a more feminist bent.

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